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Overheard recently, “Why is all this stuff coming into my life?
I don’t want any of this. And don’t tell me I brought it on
myself. Why would I do that? I don’t want any of this in my
life. I’d have to be crazy to want this.”

Have you ever heard this conversation? Maybe you’ve had a
similar dialogue with someone-perhaps with yourself. Sometimes
the things that come into our lives seem the exact opposite of
what we want. We feel powerless, and all the talk that we can
create whatever we want sounds like rubbish. Is it?

It can be frustrating and painful to face a string of
disappointing life circumstances. When you intend to create a
certain life, it feels like failure when something else results.
It’s so much easier to blame someone or something else; then, at
least, you’re not a failure-a victim, but not a failure.

Let’s go back to basics. The Law of Attraction states that like
attracts like. There are many popular sayings reinforcing the
Law of Attraction: birds of a feather flock together, what goes
around comes around, do unto others as you would have them do
unto you, the world is a mirror, and many more.

The attracting force is energy. Positive, high frequency energy
attracts more of the same; likewise, negative, lower frequency
energy attracts more energy that is negative. Emotion adds
intensity to this energy; the stronger the emotion, the stronger
the attraction. If I feel down in the dumps, depressed and blue,
despite wishing to feel better, and thinking I’d like to feel
better, the energy I give off will continue to attract more of
the same-depressing, negative life results.

We’ve all seen the Law of Attraction in action; we know the
world works this way because we can often see the results—in
others. We cannot see it as easily for ourselves. A universal
law doesn’t just work some times; it works all the time. Gravity
always works. Water always converts from ice to liquid to steam
at appropriate temperatures. Energy can neither be created nor
destroyed, only altered in form-always.

Then why does it seem the Law of Attraction fails to work when
you want to create a certain result in life? That’s the question
that baffles and frustrates. But it’s the wrong question. If you
assume the universal law isn’t working for you, then it isn’t a
universal law. Instead, you should assume the opposite-the Law
of Attraction is working perfectly. When you accept that the
combination of your thoughts and beliefs, emotions and feelings,
and subconscious intentions and yearnings are generating your
life results, you gain the power and perspective to change.

Once you accept that your life is the result of your thoughts,
beliefs, emotions, and actions, you are ready to take the 8
steps necessary to attract the life you do desire.

1. The first question to ask is this: do I really want different
life results? Be sensitive to how you feel about the area of
life you believe you want to change. Are there mixed feelings
there? Do you wish for greater career success while
simultaneously feeling terrified of making the changes required
to attain it? Is career success even your desire? Or is it a
success prescribed by others? The energy projected by a
combination of conflicting thinking and feeling will continue to
attract more of what you’re now experiencing. Clearly confirming
the life change as your true desire allows you to move on to the
next seven important steps.

2. Clarify what you want. Visualize the thing you desire
and-this is important-feel the resulting emotion. Emotion-a
state of being-is what we really desire. The things we think we
want are only a means to an end-the end being an emotion. We
think we want money, but we really want the emotion of security,
abundance, or some other emotion/state of being which money will
bring. We think we want a life partner, but what we really want
is to love and be loved, to be intimately connected to another.

3. Identify any negative emotions associated with what you want.
We often fear some aspect of what we believe we desire. This
fear will diminish our powers of attraction, probably resulting
in more of what we now have. Pursue these negative emotions,
what do they convey, what are you avoiding?

Do you desire to write a book, but fear it, too? The energy
projected from your fear will offset the positive energy
projected from your desire to complete the book-you’ll continue
to attract the inability to complete the book.

4. Identify what you don’t want and why. Visualize what you
don’t want, and note associated emotions. List these emotions.
Next to each negative emotion, ask yourself what belief you
might hold, or what experiences you might have had that cause
that emotion. A negative emotion is always associated with a
fundamental belief, perhaps buried deep in the subconscious.

Taking the book example again, assume you realize what you don’t
want is to invest a huge amount of time and energy writing a
book which few people read-a waste of your effort. As you think
about this, you feel unimportant, insignificant, as if you’ve
nothing to contribute. Insignificance is what you really fear,
and this is what is preventing you from achieving the completed
book.

A belief you hold is sponsoring this fear of insignificance. In
plain, harsh words, you might believe the following: “I have
nothing of value to offer the world.” Perhaps you subconsciously
hold this belief because of harsh criticism from parents,
teachers, or employers. As long as you hold this belief, you
will continue to attract life experiences directly or indirectly
supporting the belief.

5. Carefully examine each belief you identified in step 4.
Accept that each belief has been true for you up until now, but
need not be true in your future. Decide to discard the belief,
realizing that broad generalizations are oversimplifications.
Look for exceptions to the belief. Look for examples in your
life disproving the belief. Perhaps you find you enjoy writing,
and others enjoy reading what you write; therefore, you do have
something of significance to offer.

6. Convert each belief to a form that will help you. Start by
writing each belief identified in step 4 on a new line. Now
revise the belief to form a positive affirmation supporting
forward movement. For example, assume you’ve identified the
following belief as a source of your fear associated with
writing a book: I am not a brilliant writer, so a book that I
write may be laughable to others. This belief, if sustained,
will continue to sabotage your authoring desire.

Make the following change to turn this into a belief that helps
you: The book I write will be the best book I can write at this
time, and my satisfaction and reward will come from doing my
very best, rather than from the opinions of other people.

7. Transfer your list of modified beliefs-these are now
positive, supportive affirmations-to a clean sheet of paper.
Read each affirmation slowly and carefully twice each day,
morning and evening. As you read each affirmation-each new
belief-feel the emotion associated with it. Live within the
reality of each affirmation, savoring your feelings and
emotions.

8. Reinforce a positive orientation by calling forth other
positive emotions each day. Make a habit of allowing only
positive thoughts. A good way to do this is to think of three
things you are grateful for having in your life. Hold each in
your mind and feel the emotion of it. Do this upon waking each
morning and before going to sleep each evening.

When something negative happens-as it will-look carefully for a
positive aspect to hold in your mind. A traffic jam on your way
home may slow you down, but also gives you an opportunity to
relax and think of pleasant evening activities. A harsh critique
of your book will sting, but may provide valuable information.

Will you always attract the life you desire by following these
steps? I wish the answer were a resounding yes. For those who
are life masters-or close to mastery-the answer is a consistent
yes. Masters consciously create exactly what they desire.
Unfortunately, most of us fall short of mastery, so the best we
can do is strive for our life’s desires using this process,
accepting that we may fall short at times. The important thing
is to continue to work through these eight steps, recognizing
that today you are creating tomorrow, whether knowingly or not.

Jerry Lopper
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